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Quote from: roamer_1 on Today at 02:22:16 AM
I,for one,have NEVER thought that sex was transactional unless it was for cash. Normally,it is done because two people find each other attractive,or even just because they happen to be available to one another in time of sexual need. Which is also why most people married one another. Their only other option was to never marry or have a family.
What a bleeped up world you live in to consider sex to primarily be a transaction.
I do not,
@sneakypete ... At least not anymore. Yah screwed that up for me forevermore way back in the day... A particular conquest was well in my sights, and willing, but somewhere in my drunken stupor Yah spoke to me and simply said: "That's somebody's daughter..." And in an instant I realized I was not merely having fun with a party girl (albeit that was my intention)... I was dishonoring her father and mother... Hell, her whole family.
I am no choirboy, even yet... But sex is no longer transactional... I need some semblance of a relationship before I go there... I have no interest without a commitment. Sometimes that works out... sometimes it don't. Even so, to suggest that sex is not merely transactional in this day and age is to be entirely blind.
Usually there ARE no consequences. I have no idea how you came to the conclusion that there is,unless you have lived a very shallow,guilt-filled life.
Yes,SOMETIMES there ARE consequences,such as catching VD or an unwanted pregnancy. Which to ME seems to be the primary reason to restrict legal sex to adults. Adults are SUPPOSED to be mature enough and financially capable of dealing with the consequences,including raising a child if that becomes necessary.
There are ALWAYS consequences, some are just more drastic than others. But there is no question that the majority of party sex, and resulting pregnancies are visited on the young. Seldom do folks stay in that scene much past 20 or 30, with most of the 'mistakes' coming before that. And broken homes and single parents are literally rampant.
There is no fixing anything in this country while ignoring that obvious fact. Like I said, loose morals lead to single parents, single parents lead to drug abuse and gangs, and drug abuse and gangs lead to more single parenthood.
No doubt "GAWD" told you that women who have sex and aren't married are all sluts?
Nah... That was Webster's dang dictionary.
Yeah,what could POSSIBLY go wrong there? Other than child abuse,wife abuse,drunken assaults,children running away from unsafe homes,etc,etc,etc?
Except it didn't go wrong there. Far, far less than in today's meat market. ALL that you mentioned are way way up compared to pre-'60s, when such things were relatively rare, and 'across the tracks'.
Here is a suggestion. How about you and your Gawd pay all the expenses? After all,you are the ones telling people how to live their lives,so why shouldn't YOU be the ones responsible for paying the bills?
Nah. There's no need. That's what you've got Uncle Nanny for.