no commode, nor out house. Bucket in a 'closet" was about it.
Folks really have no idea how common that is...
I would prefer a composting toilet.
It ain't no thing in the country life... You're always haulin sh*t somewhere or another, and composting human poop is a rich source of soil - which is life-blood in the country.
It ain't hard. Some have composting outhouses, but many have a thunderbucket right in the house somewhere, as you describe. The difference is, a whole lot of sawdust, which is another cheap commodity on a woodland farm.
You doo your business, reach over and grab a handful of sawdust, and cover your business... And it don't smell at all, done properly... When the bucket is full, it goes out to a special compost heap - usually in a 4x4x4 box, where it is dumped and covered with straw... which again, does not stink if done well... When that is full (which will take about a year), you move to another box, and then another... When the third box is full, the first can be harvested, and it is all dirt by then.
That dirt can be used anywhere, though many folks, as a precaution, won't use it on the garden, though in the orchard is fine. I just mix it in with the barn compost, were it gets turned and heated for another year... And spread on the pastures.
I know that probably sounds awful to y'all, but it really ain't no thing. Unless it gets ahead of you, especially in the winter... If you don't dump the bucket right away while it is still warm, it will freeze up... do that enough and you'll have 20-30 buckets to process in the spring, and that is a drag.
But handled in a timely fashion, dump the bucket, wash the bucket, throw some straw, on your way, it is way better than cleaning out a chicken coop, and at least an order of magnitude better than cleaning out a pig pen.
At my age I can't imagine living in that bitter cold again nor the short winter days and long nights.
I am bunged up and all, but I get on alright... Family and neighbors respect their elders, so there is always a helping hand if you need it.