I understand why such policies exist and agree that employees need protecting,but if the man and the woman both agree it is by their choice,it's nobody's business but theirs.
I had a boss, and a subordinate, involved in their affair.
They kept it very discreet, and then one left the company, so that their love could flourish.
They were both CPAs, so they followed GAAP, for
Generally Acepted Affair Principles.