You know, this conversation brings to mind one of the most excoriated songs I know...
Skynyrd, with a rebel flag always as the backdrop to the stage, singing Sweet Home Alabama.
It is often cited as a racist theme, because anywhere it goes in the South (and the Redneck Nation), it is SURE to bring massive crowds to their feet. There ain't a redneck boy on the planet that doesn't know every word of that song. It probably serves right along Dixie as the Confederate States anthem.
Racist as hell to Yankees that don't know any better.
But it is exactly anti-racist. And the South, and Alabamans particularly, know the truth. Which is why it serves as an anthem.
Let's see if y'all can pick up what I am layin down.
Conservatism is treated much the same - To liberals, THAT we are against their enslavement of black folks in welfare, THAT we judge all men by their merit, eschewing broad entitlements, makes us racist in their eyes.
Like with Sweet Home Alabama, the ignorant and uninformed come to precisely the wrong conclusion.