I had a friend who always talked about moving to NYC. She even spent some time sending resumes, going on interviews and looking at apartments there. I told her she would never be able to afford to live there, but like most people, she blew me off. She believed that since she would make far more money working in New York, she could afford the higher cost of living. We had a falling out last year and as far as I know she is still in much cheaper western PA. I expect she found out I was right.
It's the classic dilemma:
Go where the jobs are, but housing is unaffordable.
Go where the housing is affordable, but no accessible jobs.
Is it any wonder why we have demagogues like Trump and AOC rising to power now?