Where does the Constitution allow the federal government to do a few things like these examples?
1) dictate school curriculum, testing, lunch menus and transgender use of bathrooms and locker rooms;
2) prohibit mining and burning of coal;
3) regulate ditches and canals as "waters of the U.S.";
4) revoke accreditation of colleges whose standards are not "politically correct";
5) force private religious employers to provide contraceptive services;
6) dictate overtime pay in private employment;
7) revoke tax-exemptions for nonconforming religious beliefs;
8) protect wildlife that damages property or threatens domestic livestock;
9) force one-size-fits-all health care plans;
10) limit use of public lands;
Lots of others abound.
You are the irrational one if you believe the federal government cowtows to the states.
School matters are handled through the spending power - as you should know, if you know half the law you pretend to know, the spending power is plenary and the Congress can attach as many strings as it pleases. You want federal funds for local schools, then you must dance the tune the federal devil calls.
Mining and burning coal are both eminently economic activities, and necessarily take place using the instrumentalities of interstate commerce, and are therefore amenable to federal control through the commerce clause, at the least.
Ditches and canals - certainly to the extent they are navigable, the Commerce Clause
Employment - duh, that is clear economic activity and therefore obviously under the Commerce Clause
I'd continue, but why bother, because you clearly are just as bad as a liberal: if the law doesn't meet with your ideological sentiments, then the law is to be ignored at will.
You are a hypocrite and a pharisee, loudly proclaiming your desire to be governed by the rule of law, but abandoning that sentiment the moment it conflicts with your ideology.
Pathetic.