Sorry, one sided story.... one of my good boys did get in trouble for touching girls inappropriately. At church in lines at youth functions he would swing his arms (acting innocently) and bump girls in the behind. One of the parents brought it to our attention, and we most certainly took action. He had done it several times in the past, and it wasn't innocent. He was my good boy, I thought. But he yielded to temptation and rightfully got his arm bit off to the nub by both the parents and us. He was required to go to talk with the pastor, he was required to write "sorry" letters to the girls and their parents and was grounded.
You don't touch girls inappropriately. Did I mention he was my good boy (always sweet, shy, loving and innocent). Hopefully we nipped it in the bud, he seems sorry, but is shy making friends his own age now.