Laura wrote in Reply 21 above:
"Neither person should have a lawyer. Neither person should hear what the other person says. It doesn't matter who goes first: Person A, Person B, Person A further questions, Person B further questions, etc. Public and televised, no investigation, no witnesses, it's not a trial, no one needs counsel."
Have a dose of Fishrrman's credo:
Reality is what it is. It is not what we believe to be.