I grew up in a Dem family. As far as loving your country, fifty years ago there was little difference between Dems or Pubbies.
It's only in the last forty-fifty years we've seen the emergence of the far left in controlling the Dem Party and spreading the America-is-evil garbage.
Remember, in the 1972, in the wake of an unpopular war, a WWII combat veteran, George McGovern, got severely trounced by Richard Nixon. Many Dems couldn't support McGovern's leftist agenda.
Contrast that with today with a smug leftist like Barack Obama winning two elections.
People change. I just can't understand why so many white males still vote for a party that is determined to see them demeaned, crushed, or eliminated.