And the moment you refuse to let her abort it, it becomes servitude. It really is just that simple.
As a guy, I have the option to insist that I wear something that will prevent that outcome. Both parties can prevent that, so I'm not buying that argument, from its inception.
I know others who have gone even beyond the barrier method, and had the tubes cut so they cannot become daddies (or create more lives, in addition to the ones they already started).
And there is no obligation to engage in coitus, no matter how great the moment of desire.
So, again, counselor, the time to decide not to father a child is
before creating that life.
Afterwards, you are just setting a price on an innocent little head.