And.... about judging others (lest ye be judged)....
Which is why it borders on the absurd for someone to allude to them being such a "good Christian"... even while engaging in these same behaviors in judging and accusing others.
Good grief, we as Christians are to "judge rightly"...
The verse you paraphrase could more aptly be shortened to "judge not... ye hypocrite".... if quoted for reference..
Who is not to judge? A person doing the same thing as what they are accusing others of doing.
On subject, I can not accuse Roy of wrongly dating younger women, I did it myself. Married one, 25+ years now. She even dated a fellow older than myself before I met her. Yes, talking about Alabama too.