I don't argue that abortion is respectful of women.
Perhaps I might be convinced to argue, however, that allowing a woman to choose her own path is respectful of women. Because I believe that I am no smarter than a woman regarding herself.
Now, if she's killing another creature, her own child, that's a different matter, isn't it?
That's a bogus claim as well, because by supporting a woman's "right to choose" abortion (trying to be kind, and all that), you are supporting her right to kill someone else, and not "herself."
The whole "a woman has a right to do what she wants with her own body" is a horrid lie. A baby is NOT her body.
It's a separate human being, designed by God, and no more than you have a right to kill me, if my life makes yours inconvenient, a woman has NO right to kill another human being.
And it's not kind, nor generous, nor open-minded, nor civil, to say she does.
IOW, you cannot argue that you respect women's right to choose without saying you are OK with her killing her child.
It's not a tightrope you can walk, no matter how hard you try.