In my parents' generation and in mine, the dream was to send the kids to college so that they would have a better life, have a better standard of living and, particularly in the case of my parents' generation, not have to work so hard as the parents did.
Today, if I had children, I would not send them to college. College teaches them nothing. Instead, they are indoctrinated in social justice mumbo jumbo. Graduates know all about microagressions. but they have no job skills. Some can't even read, write or do math.
I'd send my kids to a trade, tech or business school -- somewhere where they can learn an occupation free of liberal commie indoctrination. A plumber doesn't have to know about social justice.