@Emjay I'm going to say this to you, and then I'm done. Trust me when I say that respect for the forum, and not you, is the only reason I don't lay out my opinion of you. Plus your passive-aggressive (there it is!) sniping, grousing, and crabbing usually don't merit a response, but I'm feeling expansive today. Also, monthly hormones are leaving me with a zero tolerance for crap right now.
Don't yap to me about you "trying not to do personal insults." Hell, you live for them. Who are you kidding? And that's fine, but you lack the guts to own it. You like your little drive-bys while you put on the demure dowager act. Then when you get called on your crap, you're all "Oh my, was I bad?", "Gee, I was just trying to be funny", etc. Or, if someone happens to really hit a nerve, you cry and play the victim like you did last night, and are still doing today. You get a big kick out of dishing it out in your coy little way, but you reeeaaally can't take it. When you get it thrown back at you, it festers, doesn't it?
If you don't like being pegged as passive-aggressive, stop acting that way. Or not. Regardless, you might as well go play your games with someone else.
If the mods want to slap my hand for that, fair enough---I'll take my lumps. It was worth it to kick off an ankle-biter.