Anyone who fantasizes about having sex with a virgin, has never actually had sex with a virgin. Potentially, one of the most awkward situations you can ever experience. Ok, ok, ok, ok, alright, go ahead. NO! stop! wait, wait, ok, ok, go ahead. But be gentle and go slow, dammit! ok, ok ...
It was like performing a medical procedure. Sex and sexiness, had very little to do with it.
Regardless of the religious or moral implications, I strongly recommend having sex at least once before marriage. Otherwise, you're betting blind. And sexual compatibility is a large part of a healthy marriage. If anything weird is going on in that department, it is extremely important to know this before doing anything permanent.
How many gay men marry women for cover. I think we can guess what kind of sex he is going to prefer.
How many men and women who are asexual, actually grossed out by sex, get married. These are important issues to know before a wedding.
There is an old internet story about a man and the woman who get married. As soon as the guy finishes he squats and takes a dump on the woman's back. She yells, What the hell are you doing!? He says, 'Oh, I thought everybody did that?' Better to know what you are signing up for IMO.