I came from rural conservative roots, too, but grew up 50 miles from D.C.
It isn't that I haven't seen a lot of other cultural beliefs/practices, it's that I choose not to embrace them.
I can get along with most anyone but that doesn't mean I want to live that way or that I find it to be desirable to do so.
Agreed. I was commenting on some from sheltered backgrounds, not you.
A complement to that is the person who grew up entirely in liberal America and never was taught the benefits of a long-view, a conservative approach that considers consequences and higher-order effects.
All that means is I am less shocked than I would have been 50 years ago reading about the things I read about today. It doesn't mean I see them as 'right', have changed my standards, or embrace those different ideas. There is a difference between being desensitized by your surroundings and polluted by them.
I partly embrace a broader view, despite remaining conservative. For example, I now have a better understanding of why we can't just repeal the ACA without it having consequences. While I tend to lean very heavily libertarian, I've been convinced that there might be something to the conservative idea of being a brother's keeper to a certain extent. That is, there's some "common good" side to government.
While I was intellectually aware of the Tragedy of the Commons, it's only more recently that I've realized that there's a huge blind spot toward it when looking at the Austrian School economically. And the Free Market is far more cruel than most people want society to be.
Therefore, the questions are (a) who should pick up that burden of those who can't fend for themselves, and (b) how should it be implemented. I think the burden should be spread to beyond just those who are Christian, but does society have any right to ask everyone to contribute to our fellow man? And what's the best way to implement it? Those are questions that multiple versions of conservatism can differ on, all while being conservative.
Yeah, this is far off the original topic, but it goes back to being willing to discuss with even those who might not have the same exact vision.