Is it necessary to ask that if any of you ever encounter someone who thinks suicide is the answer to their problems you would do all in your power to convince the person that they deserve to live and are worthy of being loved.
I have dealt with
hundreds of suicidal people. I can tell you that in most cases "deserving to live" and "worthy of being loved" aren't the things that they feel they lack. Yes, those are present in many. But not all. So we must look at each person individually to see his needs, what is lacking in his life.
The problem is, in some cases, we have no way to fulfill that person's life.
And in those cases, who are we to say someone must continue an existence of pain, just so we feel better by having them here?
Everyone should ask himself: If your friend really didn't want to go out to the bars, but you did, are you the type to insist the friend goes just because you want it? Would you insist they see the movie you want to see but they don't? Then why make them live a life they don't want? Try to convince them all we can, but in the end...it's not our decision, it's theirs.
(BTW, just this morning, I got a call that a friend's estranged husband took his life. She is devastated. So I'm not unaware of the effects on others.)