There aren't too many straight men in that area. Add only wanting to marry someone of your same faith and education, and there is no one in the dating pool.
Trust me on this. It's dry there once you hit thirty. And most guys prior to that just want to make money and party, in the city.
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I'm speaking in generalities not applies to everyone.
If you want to find someone you have to move out of the city.
You think you've got it bad?
Try finding a Country/Southern raised Christian Messianic/Jewish Messianic cowgirl/hilljilly. There may be one, but she ain't here.
I can absolutely predict that I will never hear the words "Aw, sugar, why you're just my kind! Shalom, baby"
A statistical absurdity.