Actually she's the one who brought it up again recently but its something we've talked about for years. No big deal one way or the other.
The opinions of degenerate pro gay liberal outsiders are meaningless
Well, any outsiders opinions are meaningless, for that matter, especially some folks'.
That is between the two of you, and I pray whatever course you take leads you both to fulfillment and happiness.
As for the rest, you were given free advice, and sometimes you get what you paid for.