I have to agree with a LOT of what you said. I don't think Jesus would be in favor of hate or intolerance for people who have done nothing to hurt us except offend us by their lifestyle... but that's not intentional 99% of the time.
Society has been vicious in its treatment of misfits in the past. I would hope we've grown up a little.
Very few gays would opt for marriage, especially males. But I have known faithful gay couples who might do so.
The thing that really hurts society is infidelity. Sorry if that hurts some of the self-righteous among us.
Yes, this. Infidelity is the sin, faithlessness is the sin. A loving and faithful couple that are true to each other through thick and thin are following in the path of the Lord - their sexual orientation is irrelevant.
The Bible thumpers wouldn't recognize Jesus if He returns tomorrow. They would resist and condemn His apostasy, because they would be terrified of His love.
Preach it, Emjay! I've often wondered whether it is necessary to leave the Church to know Jesus. But your wise words give me optimism that there are some Christians, at least, who will know Him when they see Him.