This is the most absurd part of the whole thing. Some States base the amount of child support on what they call the 'family income' of the divorced spouse. When they are single, the family income is only their one salary. However, should they remarry, then the income and assets of the new spouse would be included in, family income, and the amount of child support would be adjusted accordingly. Think about it.
If I remarry, my new wife could wind up paying child support to my ex-wife. In what universe does this make any sense? Why would I ever remarry under these circumstances, and what woman would ever agree to marry me?
So, when the child support judgement was issued, several other things came with it, from this point on.
You will report all events that happen in your life directly to us.
You will never be allowed to be successful, because the more you make, the more we take, to keep you at a certain level of income. If you get a raise, we need to know about it.
You will never remarry, and if you do, we will punish you, and her.
That's life in modern America. That is why I always warn people about to get married to make sure they know what they are doing. I'm not saying to not get married. I'm only saying, be very careful. It is a serious thing, not to be taken lightly.