Not sure where being gay interferes with conservatism as a governing philosophy.
Thats exactly the point. It has no place. Milo makes 'gay' the front and center of eerything he does. From his flamboyance, to his commentary. Haing had gay family members I know all too well how 'gay' quickly disrupts all aspects of ones existence. When most conversations begin with some iteration of "Speaking as a gay man/woman I..."
I don't care what Milo or any other gay does or who they do it with as long as I don't have to have it put in my face 24/7. NO ONE can say Milo isn't on fire 24/7.
Conservatism has nothing to do with sex acts. Being gay by definition is about sex acts because lets face it. Without sex, two gays cannot be differentiated from two good friends. One could try to argue that feelings and the emotionalism surrounding the sex is as important a part of 'gay' as the sex itself. However...
Conservatism does not consider sex, nor feelings, nor emotionalism of straight people. It's a political philosophy. So why would or SHOULD gay be given special consideration? It cannot be both ways.
Gays demand special rights and treatment that run counter to everything conservatism stands for. Being gay should carry no more consideration than being a motorcyclist...another lifestyle choice that has far more adherents than homosexuality, but no more relevance to or place in a political movement. What bike you ride has no bearing on anything conservative.
However with homosexuals, the moment they begin agitating (and they always have/do/will) to be heard based on their sex practices, the concept of conservatism is rendered meaningless.
Does conservatism or the American political sustem/government need choices made by peoples sex choices? If so then yes, we should homofy all parties. If not, then gay/identity politics has no place at any political table.