@CatherineofAragon, Actually, the man bun guys will tell you that their not having a clue makes them more qualified than you to make these policy decisions because they are unbiased by their ignorance. Untainted by bigotry-causing experience. I wish, ever so much, that I were shitting you.
@Cyber Liberty Oh, I know you aren't. I've had similar experiences.
In my case, they've come from people who have transplanted down here (to Virginia) from other parts of the country, who have uninformed opinions about "Southern racism." They know all about it, or they think they do.
The truth is that we're all Southerners...skin color doesn't matter to us. We all get along fine. But to hear other, more enlightened folks talk, you'd think we have black people chained up in the basement.
I've seen one racial incident in my life so far. It was in a doctor's office. Some old fat guy got into an argument with a black lady and yelled that she "ought to go back to Africa."
He had a New York/Jersey accent.