Stop. You're scaring me.
@bigheadfred I can't help it, it makes me mad, lol Somebody rammed a grocery cart into my car and dented it, and after it was fixed, I came out of a store and saw that the car parked facing it was touching it, or seemed to be. I was kind of wary of getting another slam, so I went to look. The owner of the car, a guy with a New York accent who was about six-two, came out as I was checking, and he said, "I'm not touching your car", in a jerkish way. I said I was just making sure, and the response was, "Bitch, I said I'm not touching your car, so why don't you get in it." I walked over and got up in his face and said that might be the way he was taught to address people but down here we don't appreciate it.
Like my husband said, it was totally dumb for me to do, but temper overwhelmed brains.