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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #76 on: July 13, 2016, 06:33:08 pm »
I would never remarry...been married 46 years in just a few days and he still isn't trained...I don't have time to start over!

In my case it's 47 1/2 years and I'll never be trained!
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« Reply #77 on: July 13, 2016, 07:04:15 pm »
In my case it's 47 1/2 years and I'll never be trained!

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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #78 on: July 13, 2016, 07:09:30 pm »
Then, if you have decided to tie the knot, keep separate checking accounts and credit cards. You will avoid more hassles that way.

I never understood the idea of being married and believing money was separate for each.  Seems like a plan to not be married, eventually.
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« Reply #79 on: July 13, 2016, 07:14:30 pm »
I never understood the idea of being married and believing money was separate for each.  Seems like a plan to not be married, eventually.
Actually, it isn't separate. Either spouse can write checks on either account, or not. But one uses one and the other the other, for bookkeeping purposes. When times get lean, it can save on trouble not having two people writing checks out of one account. Ditto credit cards. At all times, you know exactly where the money stands.

Considering finances can be a heck of a bone of contention, it's a plan to stay married.
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« Reply #80 on: July 13, 2016, 07:18:35 pm »
Actually, it isn't separate. Either spouse can write checks on either account, or not. But one uses one and the other the other, for bookkeeping purposes.

Okay, that I understand and we do ourselves.  But it is a single account with several different buckets for tracking and specific saving plans.

My In-Law's money were truly separate and was a major source of contention and arguements for 62 years and created problems even after her death.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #81 on: July 13, 2016, 07:20:35 pm »
I never understood the idea of being married and believing money was separate for each.  Seems like a plan to not be married, eventually.

I agree with @Smokin Joe .  In addition, my wife and I had been writing our own checks for our own bills for years before we got married (we were about 50 when we got married) and we were used to it.  Since we both have an income, the easiest thing to do was just split up the bills and each handle our agreed responsibilities.  That way, nothing gets paid twice and nothing falls through the cracks.  And we both have signing authority on each others' accounts.
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« Reply #82 on: July 13, 2016, 07:45:03 pm »
I never understood the idea of being married and believing money was separate for each.  Seems like a plan to not be married, eventually.

My wife and I have separate checking and saving accounts and credit cards. We both make about the same money. One month she pays all the bills, the next month I do.

We were married later in life mid 30's..works for us. We both prefer it that way.

PS we can sign each others checks.

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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #83 on: July 15, 2016, 03:04:07 am »
I have a lot of single female friends and they generally fall into two categories; 30 somethings that are still trying to date like they did in college, choosing the guy with the jacked up truck and Ed Hardy shirt who goes clubbing every night. The problem is that doesn't translate well to an adult and they always are complaining about crappy guys.

The other category is the 40 something professional set who are type a personalities and content with their life. Most of them are real catches (hot, smart, wealthy, not crazy), but don't have time for dating games.

Sadly I can't find any of my bros to set up with any of them.
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« Reply #84 on: July 15, 2016, 03:12:23 am »
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Aren't you around the Dallas area?

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« Reply #85 on: July 15, 2016, 04:53:10 am »
Aren't you around the Dallas area?
I was half-kidding. Although I suppose, if there are any interested in long-distance relationships, I suppose I'd consider it. It's not like I'm surrounded by eligible bachelorettes where I'm at here in upstate NY.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #86 on: July 15, 2016, 06:18:09 pm »
We are bashing the women here about not being catches but today's men are not anything to drool over.

Any woman or man who does not do a criminal, marriage record  and financial background check on their  latest squeeze is a fool. $25 internet anonymous background check is cheap insurance before things get hot and heavy.

Heck, a friend of mine waited too long to do a Google search.  Would have saved her the heartbreak of finding the news stories of him being wanted for felony domestic assault with a deadly weapon, etc.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #87 on: July 25, 2016, 04:53:19 pm »
Heck, a friend of mine waited too long to do a Google search.  Would have saved her the heartbreak of finding the news stories of him being wanted for felony domestic assault with a deadly weapon, etc.

Good grief. I have (had) a friend that's in the same boat; however, she insists on continuing the relationship! 
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #88 on: July 25, 2016, 05:06:13 pm »


I refuse to be dominated by anyone at anytime and in any place...

Then you don't know what the hell fun is....


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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #89 on: July 25, 2016, 05:09:49 pm »
Then you don't know what the hell fun is....



Are we sure that's not a dude?

Speaking of turnoffs....

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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #90 on: July 25, 2016, 09:09:16 pm »
I'm not exaggerating or lied what I said. It's true.

When I was 17 back in the late 70's  I worked at my uncles gas station.  I was playing 2 sports in HS and pumping iron and wore tight jeans and was a damn good looking kid for 17.

You would not believe what women would say or do.  The first week I worked there was a woman in her late 30 or early 40's who said after I pumper her gas and went up to her window for payment "How about a kiss?"   And that was mild. I was offered straight out sex numerous times by women 30, 40, 50 and 60+ years old.

This trend you see of older women having sex with men <18 is nothing new. The only difference today is cell phones, photos and text messages are hanging these women.

Trust me when I say this..just because you may have never done these things many many many other women have. it's not Boys will be boys but girls will be girls.

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It's probably off-topic for this board...but, what the hey.

What this proves, is the reality of age-old patters of human pairing.  Old/young.  Young/old.

Young men are sex machines.  They'd screw the crack of Dawn.  A few wrinkles and cellulite and even stretchmarks...isn't enough to dissuade.

It's The Graduate.  And I've seen the truth of that, over and over.  When I was a kid working on a golf course, one of the preppie college sophmores was taken, I mean OBSESSED, with a woman working in the front office of the resort which owned the course.  This was a woman 32 years old, with a ten-year-old son.

I myself later had a similar situation...a woman about twelve years older than I, separated from her husband, two kids...threw herself my way.  I don't know if it's to my shame or my credit, but I didn't bite the bait.

Young boys are like that.  They're driven; and older women, who are past their fear and are in fact feeling the fear of unsatisfied LUST...they match, mostly.

Older men...and young females.  Another natural match.  With a middle-aged man, the fires are banked somewhat.  The newness is off.  Control has been learned.  So has the needs of a partner.

Just the thing for a young woman afraid of the stories of bleeding, pain and pregnancy.  And of two-pump chumps who finish off before even getting started.

There was a time when this was, if not sanctioned, at least recognized.  But these days women are told to get with other women; and old men are just castigated and rejected.  And young males?  Gelded psychologically, if not actually...a generation of Pajama BoyZ, taught how much more wonderful is homosexual sodomy, and to be ashamed of desiring to pair off with a female...a REAL female, not a female-for-a-day with a bigger penis than they have...

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« Reply #91 on: July 25, 2016, 09:25:59 pm »
Then you don't know what the hell fun is....



That just screams get my "Hello Kitty" Ball Gag!
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #92 on: July 25, 2016, 09:34:40 pm »
Then you don't know what the hell fun is....



But can she make a sammich?

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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #93 on: July 25, 2016, 11:40:11 pm »
Then you don't know what the hell fun is....



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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #94 on: July 31, 2016, 06:50:14 pm »
Not all feminist are bad.  My wife is 60's and 70's 2nd wave feminist-equal pay, right to vote kinda gal. She  is pro choice and has no problem with gay rights but is conservative to the core everywhere else, small gov't, pro 2nd amend, close the borders, strong military, low taxes, wants major tort reform etc etc.

There are many conservative women like her...women who look upon themselves as conservatives rather than liberals even though they are pro choice.

My wife rarely brings up politics-does not interest her..she has her horses that is her life.

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I pretty much converted my wife into supporting conservative pols, but you have  a good point...expecting your significant other to agree with you on every issue is probably impossible.
 When I started going with her she was a regular Democrat voter.  Now she rabidly dislikes most Dem pols. You should see her go off on Hillary.  I usually don't hear that kind of language out of her.
My wife is still pro choice on abortion but against partial birth abortion. I don't try to argue with her about it, she's stubborn as a mule.
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