You've let this place go to ****.
Carling, I am not directing this at you or anyone in particular. To be sure, I am only speaking for myself so take it for what it is worth - which may be less than nothing. But, what the heck - I'm gonna go out on a limb. I have spent a lifetime moderating people in one way or another, including some mod experience at this internet forum thingy.
For a mere mortal like me, there is no needle tougher to thread. This is especially true when emotions are high (for whatever reason), and this is especially so when sabers are crossed. Then, there are loyalties and commonalities between members and, often there are marked differences and disagreements. And we do this in the comfort of sitting in front of a computer - anonymously.
I will tell you, I know the mods are doing all they can to get through this period. They are not punitive by intent, and they want to give us latitude. Latitude to be wrong - and even sometimes, to make an ass of ourselves. Membership is what makes a joint like this hum and each member should have a way to voice their opinion. For every one of those members I think is full of crap, at least a like number think I am. And, so it goes.
I am confident that mystery-ak, Repub4???, and the mods are not conniving to make things difficult or to allow this place to fall apart. Quite the opposite, I'm sure. You're frustrated? That's multiplied several times over if you are a mod and by orders of magnitude if you have spent incredible hours, days and years trying to make this thing go - especially myst.
So - I try to keep perspective. People - no tougher needle to thread. We'll get through this, man.