Author Topic: Same-sex marriage rights are sweeping the US. Here's where each state stands.  (Read 3237 times)

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Offline musiclady

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I'm not going to argue with you any more Musiclady.  I've no idea why you must always turn a debate into a personal match.  And I apologize if my alleged 'braggadocio' has upset you.  Trust me, I won't respond to any more of your posts.  Take care

btw, I hope that, after you've calmed down, you change your mind about responding to my posts.

I like a little sparring, and you're one of the people with whom I have enjoyed a little friendly, non-personal (on my part, at least) verbal fisticuffs.

If you end up really deciding you don't want the spirited good-natured debate we've had, I'll (reluctantly) leave you alone.

In case you do, you take care too.
Character still matters.  It always matters.

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Thanks!    :beer:
 
The key, IMO, is understanding that the erosion of morality is a critical part of the leftists' attempts to destroy American culture, and thus America.

All the touchy-feely stuff about 'civil rights' and fairness is a smoke screen for the real progressive/Marxist agenda.

Absolutely musiclady.  It is all clear as the nose at the end of your face, but many chose to not see.

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Absolutely musiclady.  It is all clear as the nose at the end of your face, but many chose to not see.

Indeed. 

It's clear to anyone whose eyes are open.
Character still matters.  It always matters.

I wear a mask as an exercise in liberty and love for others.  To see it as an infringement of liberty is to entirely miss the point.  Be kind.

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Use the time God is giving us to seek His will and feel His presence.

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Just for the record, below is the complete text of a posting I put up on TOS on June 30, 2003:
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[[ From this editorial we had better be prepared for the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) to be challenged in the courts and eventually ending up at the SCOTUS ]]

And end up there it will. Considering the current behavior of the Court, the outcome will be anybody's guess. _My_ guess is that there is a relatively strong -- not guaranteed, but "strong", nonetheless -- possibility that our side could lose.

With Vermont, and soon Massachusetts, we will have lost "two for two". I predict that if gay marriage comes before the New Jersey Supreme Court (one of the most liberal in the nation), that we will lose there as well. That will make it three for three.

Gay marriage is taking exactly the same "trek towards legitimization" that _abortion_ took before the Roe v. Wade decision. This is no mistake -- it is intentional and well-planned.

The routine works like this:
1. Gain a "foothold" for your argument by getting your cause "legitimized" in a few states (even though the majority of the remainder of those states still outlaw it).
2. Build a measure of public opinion supporting your issue (again, the majority of public opinion still against you notwithstanding).
3. Get your issue before the Supreme Court, and persuade them to "cross the line" between adjudicating and law-writing. This might be deemed the "penumbra of rights" tactic.

It worked with Roe. And -- particularly considering the Court's "Sodomy ruling" only a few days ago -- has a very good chance of working again with gay marriage. The "legal groundwork" is already there. All that is necessary is to coax the Justices to "reach" just a bit further in their reasoning.

For this reason, the outcome of a Supreme Court challenge to the Defense of Marriage act cannot be guaranteed. Presuming that our view of "traditional marriage" will survive a Supreme Court challenge carries great risk.

For that reason, it should not be allowed to happen. It _can_ be prevented, but we must act soon.

And the ONLY way to prevent such an eventual Supreme Court challenge, with its uncertain outcome, is to do an "end run" around the courts. Of course, this will require a United States Constitutional Amendment.

My proposed amendment to the United States Constitution:
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"The United States, and the Several States, recognize that the legal and moral contract of marriage may be established only between one man and one woman. Neither the United States, nor the Several States, will sanction nor recognize any form of marriage other than that entered into by one man and one woman."
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This is what it will take -- and can be the ONLY possible solution -- to stop the "gay marriage" movement in its tracks. Nothing else will work. Let me repeat that for you lunkheads: NOTHING ELSE WILL WORK. If you really want to "stop them", this is how you will have to do it.

From time to time, I have encountered individuals on this board who counter my thoughts with the supposition, "this isn't a matter for the Constitution" (or the courts). Your point is well taken, from a strictly intellectual viewpoint, but in the end you will lose if this is the only argumentative weapon you choose with which to do battle against the other side. THEY will use ALL weapons at their disposal in order to achieve their goal, and WILL NOT STOP FIGHTING until they have achieved that goal.

Like the obstructive Democrats of the Senate who are fillibustering the nomination of federal judges, they realize that our side may lack the "will" to take decisive and final action to stop their onslaught. In the case of the Senate, our side could quickly and easily end the fillibusters and force judicial nominations to the floor by use of the so-called "nuclear option" -- but they're _afraid_. Afraid of exactly _what_, only G-d knows.

And so it follows that we are "afraid" to press on -- and fight hard -- for the only "nuclear option" that will stop the gay marriage juggernaut. In our hearts, we know what must be done.

But will we do it?

Cheers!Just for the record, below is the complete text of a posting I put up on TOS on June 30, 2003:
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PhiKapMom wrote:
[[ From this editorial we had better be prepared for the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) to be challenged in the courts and eventually ending up at the SCOTUS ]]

And end up there it will. Considering the current behavior of the Court, the outcome will be anybody's guess. _My_ guess is that there is a relatively strong -- not guaranteed, but "strong", nonetheless -- possibility that our side could lose.

With Vermont, and soon Massachusetts, we will have lost "two for two". I predict that if gay marriage comes before the New Jersey Supreme Court (one of the most liberal in the nation), that we will lose there as well. That will make it three for three.

Gay marriage is taking exactly the same "trek towards legitimization" that _abortion_ took before the Roe v. Wade decision. This is no mistake -- it is intentional and well-planned.

The routine works like this:
1. Gain a "foothold" for your argument by getting your cause "legitimized" in a few states (even though the majority of the remainder of those states still outlaw it).
2. Build a measure of public opinion supporting your issue (again, the majority of public opinion still against you notwithstanding).
3. Get your issue before the Supreme Court, and persuade them to "cross the line" between adjudicating and law-writing. This might be deemed the "penumbra of rights" tactic.

It worked with Roe. And -- particularly considering the Court's "Sodomy ruling" only a few days ago -- has a very good chance of working again with gay marriage. The "legal groundwork" is already there. All that is necessary is to coax the Justices to "reach" just a bit further in their reasoning.

For this reason, the outcome of a Supreme Court challenge to the Defense of Marriage act cannot be guaranteed. Presuming that our view of "traditional marriage" will survive a Supreme Court challenge carries great risk.

For that reason, it should not be allowed to happen. It _can_ be prevented, but we must act soon.

And the ONLY way to prevent such an eventual Supreme Court challenge, with its uncertain outcome, is to do an "end run" around the courts. Of course, this will require a United States Constitutional Amendment.

My proposed amendment to the United States Constitution:
============
"The United States, and the Several States, recognize that the legal and moral contract of marriage may be established only between one man and one woman. Neither the United States, nor the Several States, will sanction nor recognize any form of marriage other than that entered into by one man and one woman."
============

This is what it will take -- and can be the ONLY possible solution -- to stop the "gay marriage" movement in its tracks. Nothing else will work. Let me repeat that for you lunkheads: NOTHING ELSE WILL WORK. If you really want to "stop them", this is how you will have to do it.

From time to time, I have encountered individuals on this board who counter my thoughts with the supposition, "this isn't a matter for the Constitution" (or the courts). Your point is well taken, from a strictly intellectual viewpoint, but in the end you will lose if this is the only argumentative weapon you choose with which to do battle against the other side. THEY will use ALL weapons at their disposal in order to achieve their goal, and WILL NOT STOP FIGHTING until they have achieved that goal.

Like the obstructive Democrats of the Senate who are fillibustering the nomination of federal judges, they realize that our side may lack the "will" to take decisive and final action to stop their onslaught. In the case of the Senate, our side could quickly and easily end the fillibusters and force judicial nominations to the floor by use of the so-called "nuclear option" -- but they're _afraid_. Afraid of exactly _what_, only G-d knows.

And so it follows that we are "afraid" to press on -- and fight hard -- for the only "nuclear option" that will stop the gay marriage juggernaut. In our hearts, we know what must be done.

But will we do it?

Cheers!

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Homosexuals across the country jumping in line to get their names on a government list.

What's the worst that can happen?

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The judicial activism is following the significant cultural shift toward same-sex relationships and marriage.  Today there's not a poll that doesn't show support.  Democrats and Independents are overwhelmingly in favor; Republicans not so much.  But a few years ago the polling was far less favorable. Times have changed.

I love the whole "will of the people" argument when it's made in this issue.

The question here is whether or not people of the same sex have the right to have a marriage license issued to them by the State where they reside.

Once homosexual activity between non consanguineal consenting adults of sound mind stopped being considered a crime in the US, the reason for the denial of the license became rather vague.

As conservatives we hold the idea that rights can't be created by the government, but somehow, in this issues, we think that they can be voted on by the majority.

That's direct Democracy, which is nothing less than Socialism.

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I love the whole "will of the people" argument when it's made in this issue.

The question here is whether or not people of the same sex have the right to have a marriage license issued to them by the State where they reside.

Once homosexual activity between non consanguineal consenting adults of sound mind stopped being considered a crime in the US, the reason for the denial of the license became rather vague.

As conservatives we hold the idea that rights can't be created by the government, but somehow, in this issues, we think that they can be voted on by the majority.

That's direct Democracy, which is nothing less than Socialism.

As I've said before, the concept of homosexual acts is rather disgusting to me.  I believed it was a state issue and still do, just as I think abortion should be.  Having said that though, there's no question that judges follow trends in public opinion at times, and this was one.  Once the 14th Amendment argument was accepted by some judges, it was only a matter of time.  The killing off of DOMA was the precursor, and I remember your position on that issue.  Anyway, IMHO, some issues are better left off of major political party agendas, and this is one for the GOP to set aside.
It's the Supreme Court nominations!