I'm surprised this subject matter is so intractable. I thought of several wisecracks to insert along the way, but it seemed like a good way to get opposing people to unite in a circle and beat me to death with bamboo sticks.
It was this very topic that got me zotted at TOS. Sinkspur tried to warn me off, but without even posting again, JR took me out. I never 'felt' a thing.
And I too, was in the Class of '98.
It's crystal clear to me that GD has a strong opinion, based upon his religious upbringing. I believe that's what Lando was also expressing in his puzzlement at his behavior on this thread.
Imagine if you will. Many of here have homosexuals in our own family...in our workplace...and in our circle-of-influence. They seem and act in a mature manner, and are not the least bit predatory or on the make. According to Dan, those experiences and acquaintances are strictly the exception to the rule.
Yet, he doesn't have the balls to admit that his own firsthand experiences....as vague as they are to all of us...are based upon bible verses and Catechism classes, which have clouded his objectivity.
I have a friend who is a homosexual...and I never hesitated to have him babysit my children when they were younger. He is the cleanest, tidiest, orderly and most gentle person I've known in my life.
And that goes for any of his personal friends that he's introduced me to over the years.
Awwww.....why I still wasting my time on this thread, is a mystery to me.