I think we agree. Homosexuality, when confined to legal activities and not advocating for rights above and beyond the rights of others, is not necessarily antithetical to conservatism.
No... Right is right, and wrong is wrong. Sexual immorality is destroying this country, and homosexuality is a part of that. It ain't alright. I don't see how one can be conservative and support any sort of immorality, or any erosion of the cultural norms that have made us great - Just for the sake of the culture, not to mention the fiscal cost and loss of liberty that inevitably results.
That being said, if California and New York want to play with that plague, that ain't no part of me.
If they want to embrace sodomy and all other forms of immorality, that is their business... And if you support something in between, more power to you. That doesn't mean I have to - And that is where my argument rests - in the states - If the good folks of Mississippi want Sunday laws (as an instance), or don't want gay marriage, they should be able to have that, and it's no skin off your nose.
That's the problem here - Everything is being forced to the lowest common denominator, and not only is that doomed to fail, but it isn't what it was made for.