A proper memorial is planned for August.
I don't know if they know this but August isn't after April. It's way past it as a matter of fact.
When my died in the VA hospital in Salt lake he was immediately cremated in Utah. It was easier that way. Didn't have to mess with the paperwork of transporting his dead body across state lines and all. Plus paying the effing fees. My cousin then brought him back home a couple of days later.
We had a memorial 7 weeks later in June. BBQed a whole pig. Set up those open canopy tents with chairs and tables inside borrowed from the LDS church. Had a room set up with a life sketch on a laptop. Flowers, pics, urn. Gave people a chance to attend. They could make plans to attend instead of rushing to a funeral. Over 150 people came and went over a couple of days.
People really liked it. I liked it.