Hi @Victoria33 and everyone-
I survived Irene and Sandy. I'd never joke about a hurricane. Never been in a tornado. Sorry I'm late with this thread, spent the day with my mom yesterday, and today I'm so tired I can't keep my eyes open.
I'm going back to sleep. I can't remember ever being this tired.
@Freya Staying all day at any kind of hospital/rehab./nursing home place, wears one out. There is the concern for the family member that keeps muscles/mind tense, and there is no place to really rest. I had my husband in five hospitals in a six month period in the hottest temperature ever experienced in that county - 30 days of 105-107 temps with no rain. I was at a hospital or rehab. hospital every day in that heat, getting in a furnace in the car sitting out all day, and when I got home, I was too hot to eat. I lost 10 lbs. during that time. One doc who was our family doctor, saw me near the end of that time, and he said, "You need to eat, you are too skinny." Easy for him to say, but hard for me to do. His sister and her husband would come and go get food to bring to the house and I could eat with them there, not having to get outside in the high heat for that period of time..
I had numerous types of pink roses in my small garden then, twenty separate plants and the back fence was covered with climbing ones, and that heat scalded all on the fence and they died first and only two separate rose plants lived even though I was putting water to all of them.
Many of us have been where you are, taking care of a family member. Your Mom will eventually get out of the rehab. hospital and things will calm down for you.