If a person understands that like all leftists, SJWs are not interested in the truth but in changing society to suit their fascist vision of the world, then everything becomes understandable.
I should separate liberals from leftists although many times I lump them together. Most liberals genuinely want to improve things. In fact, we are all liberal or conservative depending on the issue. If being a liberal means I want equal rights for all Americans as defined by the constitution, then I am a liberal....at least on that issue.
If being a liberal means some groups are to be favored and given preferences unconstitutionally, then I am not a liberal.
Of course most liberals and conservatives believe in many of the same things. Rest assured, many liberals love money and understand that a society run by the rule of law is the only way to protect their money/wealth.
But liberalsim seems to have gone off the tracks in the last forty years replaced by out and out leftism.
Leftism doesn't seek to improve the lives or guarantee the rights of the unfortunate as liberals claim they do. Leftists seek a complete change of society with favored groups placed on top and certain groups demonized and eliminated if possible.
Leftists have been able to achieve many of the goals they set during the sixties and now run the Dem Party. Hillary Clinton would never have been able to gain the nomination forty years ago or win the presidency. George McGovern, who ran on a leftist program, was soundly thrashed by moderate Republican Richard Nixon.
Today McGovern's heir, Obama, was elected to two terms. And now a female version of Obama (Clinton) could be elected.
The Dem Party is now an outlaw party with the express desire to take down the U.S.A. Many loyal Dems refuse to believe their party has gone rogue leftist thinking the Dem Party simply guarantees their right to have an abortion (feminists), go on strike (unionists), or keep affirmative action (minorities), etc. They do not understand the harm that has been done by leftism. Leftists do not believe in the constitution or the rule of law. They cannot formulate a legitimate argument for what they advocate, so opposition cannot be alllowed.
And that is why millions of SJWS do not tolerate dissent and must malign/crush anybody opposed to the leftist Dem agenda. For that agenda to succeed people cannot be friends with people who oppose the leftist SJW agenda. The dissenters mush be crushed.