Author Topic: The False Stereotypes About Millennials Who Live at Home. They’re not really spoiled, affluent, white kids.  (Read 601 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Offline SirLinksALot

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 4,417
  • Gender: Male
SOURCE: THE ATLANTIC

http://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/05/millennials-who-live-at-home/484712/

by: Gillian B. White

_____________________________________

It’s easy to make fun of Millennials. They’ve been labeled spoiled, entitled, and lazy, and the fact that so many of them—nearly one in three, according to a recent Pew Research Center report—live at home with their parents only fuels the portrayal of the generation as a bunch of bratty kids.

But while it’s easy to hurl insults at 20-somethings (and 30-somethings) still crashing with their parents, the image of a spoiled upper-middle class adult spending all day on the couch playing video games is pretty far from the reality of most Millennials who wind up back home.

In fact, the very same data from Pew’s recent report doesn’t support that portrayal. Instead, the Millennials who are most likely to wind up living with their relatives are those who come from already marginalized groups that are plagued with low employment, low incomes, and low prospects for moving up the economic ladder. Millennials who live at home are also more likely to be minorities, more likely to be unemployed, and less likely to have a college degree.

Living at home is particularly understandable for  those who started school and took out loans, but didn’t finish their bachelor’s degree. These Millennials shoulder the burden of student-loan debt without the added benefits of increased job prospects, which can make living with a parent the most viable option.

For as much flack as Millennials get, there are a lot of economic reasons that the complaints some of them have are justified. According to 2014 data from the Census Bureau, median earnings for young adults who were working full-time were only about $34,000 for Millennials. That’s less than what their parents would’ve made in the 1980s, after adjusting for inflation. And that’s for Millennials who have found full-time work. According to Census data, only 65 percent of Millennials were employed as of 2014, compared to about 70 percent in the three decades prior. Those figures may help explain why nearly 20 percent of Millennials have wound up living in poverty—that’s more than five percentage points higher than the poverty rate of young adults in 1980—despite being the most educated cohort of young people in history.

Still, it’s not all about the economy. One of the main reasons that Millennials are staying at home is because they are delaying marriage until later in life, Pew researchers found. That makes sense, since two incomes can certainly make it easier to afford rapidly climbing rent prices, student-loan payments, and the host of other financial responsibilities that come with leaving the nest. But that choice, too, is divided among racial and economic lines: Richer Americans are more likely to get married than poorer ones, and white Americans are more likely be married than minorities. These again increase the chances that poorer and minority Millennials will live at home in higher numbers, and for longer.

And while there may be comedic fodder in the idea of adult children trying to share space with their parents, staying at home for many Millennials and their family isn’t all that funny. For parents who are struggling to make ends meet, an extra mouth to feed or the inability to downsize to a smaller place can be truly burdensome. For many Millennials, moving out, even if they want to, could lead them to make financial decisions that would put them in an even more precarious place, and that’s precisely the opposite of what they, or the economy, need.




Offline sinkspur

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 28,567
Quote
Living at home is particularly understandable for  those who started school and took out loans, but didn’t finish their bachelor’s degree. These Millennials shoulder the burden of student-loan debt without the added benefits of increased job prospects, which can make living with a parent the most viable option.


Mine are grown and gone, but I always told them I would kick them out if they dropped out of college (for which I was paying).  So they both finished.  I have no sympathy for slackers who fail to finish college.
« Last Edit: May 30, 2016, 02:28:20 am by sinkspur »
Roy Moore's "spiritual warfare" is driving past a junior high without stopping.

Offline Doug Loss

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 1,360
  • Gender: Male
  • Proud Tennessean


Mine are grown and gone, but I always told them I would kick them out if they dropped out of college (for which I was paying).  So they both finished.  I have no sympathy for slackers who fail to finish college.

I covered my son's college expenses (at a state school) so he wouldn't have any student loan obligations, and made sure he had a serviceable used car.  Then I made sure he went on job interviews and kept at it till he got a job he could support himself on.  He's now a programmer living in the Philly suburbs, and has developed into a self-sufficient young adult.  Any millenials still living in their parents' homes really are spoiled children.  And they didn't spoil themselves; their parents who didn't insist they become adults did.
My political philosophy:

1) I'm not bothering anybody.
2) It's none of your business.
3) Leave me alone!

Offline Suppressed

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 12,921
  • Gender: Male
    • Avatar
I covered my son's college expenses (at a state school) so he wouldn't have any student loan obligations, and made sure he had a serviceable used car.  Then I made sure he went on job interviews and kept at it till he got a job he could support himself on.  He's now a programmer living in the Philly suburbs, and has developed into a self-sufficient young adult.  Any millenials still living in their parents' homes really are spoiled children.  And they didn't spoil themselves; their parents who didn't insist they become adults did.

Many students don't have someone who can pay the bills for them like your son had.  It's unfair to call those who try but can't complete "slackers", as there's a wide variety of reasons this happens.
+++++++++
“In the outside world, I'm a simple geologist. But in here .... I am Falcor, Defender of the Alliance” --Randy Marsh

“The most effectual means of being secure against pain is to retire within ourselves, and to suffice for our own happiness.” -- Thomas Jefferson

“He's so dumb he thinks a Mexican border pays rent.” --Foghorn Leghorn

Oceander

  • Guest
I would just remind all that there are some very successful people who never completed college.  And it's not just the really famous ones; my best friend from high school went to college for 2 years, then dropped out.  Parents told him if he wasn't going to be in school he had to come home and get a job.  He did, and never looked back.  I think he finally went back and got a degree just for his own sense of ego, not because he needed it.

And many successful people who never needed college, and for whom college would have been a waste of time.

Offline Sanguine

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 35,986
  • Gender: Female
  • Ex-member
Quote
Richer Americans are more likely to get married than poorer ones...

And, married Americans are richer than unmarried Americans.

Oceander

  • Guest
And, married Americans are richer than unmarried Americans.

A possible chicken/egg problem?

Offline Sanguine

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 35,986
  • Gender: Female
  • Ex-member

Wingnut

  • Guest
Many students don't have someone who can pay the bills for them like your son had.  It's unfair to call those who try but can't complete "slackers", as there's a wide variety of reasons this happens.

The great Judge Smails once said; "The world needs ditch diggers too"

Sound advice.
« Last Edit: May 30, 2016, 06:29:45 pm by Wingnut »

Offline Doug Loss

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 1,360
  • Gender: Male
  • Proud Tennessean
Many students don't have someone who can pay the bills for them like your son had.  It's unfair to call those who try but can't complete "slackers", as there's a wide variety of reasons this happens.

Sorry, but there are jobs to be had.  They may not be the wonderful jobs you want, but if you're willing to work, you can.  So anyone refusing to even try is a slacker.  End of the story.
My political philosophy:

1) I'm not bothering anybody.
2) It's none of your business.
3) Leave me alone!