One expects better of our military leaders with these high ranks, but the same moral rot which permeates our culture infects them, too.
Actually, I think there is quite a bit of wife-swapping going on at officers parties. I gather that they put all the car keys in a bowl and when the party is over your wife goes home with whoever's keys she pulls out. Read a few articles in alternative media about it over the years.
Darned Internet!