Okay kids, there's a lot of talk about "White Privilege".
So, here it is kids (grandkids, all of whom are members of an American Indian Tribe, some of whom we raised):
If you claim "white" you will have a hard time getting Indian Health, but will have to scrounge for a doctor. Lately, the 'white' doctors aren't doing much better than the ones at the Tribal clinic, and I'd just save them for a second opinion.
No, child, Papa doesn't get that benefit. I have to pay to see a doctor, every time, and chances are about 50/50 they'll get it wrong or just not have any answer. That's why Papa spent so much time reading medical books.
Now, listen, because if you decide to go to college and hear all about how badly I have treated you (giggles), you can get grants and scholarships and maybe even squeak in with a little lower grades if you check the box that says
"Native American" that you won't be eligible for if you check the box that says "White". While I want you to always do your very best, you know what to do.
No, Papa was lucky, his Dad had saved enough money to pick up a lot of his college costs, a tremendous gift, but the bill still had to be paid in full.
Get good grades anyway, and when the time comes to get a job, don't let people think you just got it because you checked the box that says "Native American". Be good enough they'd have hired you either way. They'll brag about you if you check the 'Native' box and you may avoid some diversity training as long as you don't' say anything nasty about any other 'groups'. So think what you want, but keep your mouth shut.
As for anyone, stay clean and sober. You won't regret it, and you'll have fewer problems,especially with the law.
Now, you'll hear a lot of stuff about 'white guys", but remember, you are part white. Still, remember that Papa has loved each and every one of you more than all the toys and things in the world, so we may not have had all the gimmicks and latest gadgets and the Disneyland vacations, we never went without food, clothing, a warm and dry home to live in, books to read, TV to watch, at least one computer for the house, and all the love from your Grandma and me you could handle, even when we disagreed with your choices.
Working hard, sometimes in miserable conditions and far from home was worth it, knowing you were safe, warm, and well cared for. In that, it has been a privilege. But remember, too, no one ever cut me any slack just because of the color of my skin.
Don't expect anyone to cut you any slack either, and you'll do just fine.