Nearly every guy I know who married a super hot woman are now mostly either divorced or unhappy. Not all but most.
A car buddy of mine has a wife who is breathtaking stunning and he is unhappy. Other men constantly flirt with her or put the moves on her everywhere they go even though they know she is married. Back of his mind he wonders if she will get bored one day and move on and get an upgrade as she has options. He said it get's old to have to be on your game 24/7. What happens if h does not get that promotion? What happens if he ages badly? He is exhausted.
@CatherineofAragon
Maybe it's a product of where I live, but in general, the "hottest women" I know are all happily married or engaged and have been with their husband/fiance since high school or, at the very latest, college. The relationships are generally very long-lived and, in the rare case one of them ended up breaking up, they were usually in another relationship within a few weeks.
The beautiful women I know, I'll admit, are also generally good people on the inside as well, so they're mature enough to handle that kind of situation. Does that apply to every single beautiful woman in America? Probably not, but I don't really see "hotness" as something totally disqualifying or scary. You just have to make sure she loves you for you, and not your material stuff.
(That's part of the reason I want to get started now, while I'm not quite as well-to-do. That way, if I do have a girlfriend and then get successful, then it's a bonus, not the Sword of Damocles. The last thing anyone needs is to be single, prosperous and surrounded by a bunch of gold-diggers.)